Posted on August 09, 2019 in Family Law

Divorce with children involved is always complex — but especially so when that child has special needs.

Under Texas laws, child support doesn’t automatically end when a special needs child turns 18. It can continue indefinitely. That’s why it is particularly important for divorcing couples to plan ahead for a special needs child during their divorce.

Here are some common matters that need to be discussed:

1. Will the child live full-time with one parent? Shared parenting may not be possible with some children, especially if the child doesn’t respond well to changes in location or routine or has specialized medical equipment that needs to be with him or her at all times.
2. How much visitation will the non-custodial parent have if the child lives with the other parent? Will it be on a routine basis according to a planned schedule? Is the other parent open to more liberal visitation? What are the expectations and limits?

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 Posted on August 02, 2019 in Divorce

According to the most recent information available, the average divorce in this country costs right around $15,000. While that sounds like a lot of money, keep in mind the fact that it’s an average — which means that some divorces cost substantially less and others cost a great deal more. How much your divorce ultimately will cost depends a lot on both you and your spouse.

What can make your divorce expenses skyrocket? Here are some of the factors that influence your costs:

• Your location. If you live in an area where property is pricey and you have a lot of assets to divide, legal services may also be more expensive than in other areas.
• Which attorney you hire. If you and your spouse hire attorneys who are dedicated to working toward practical solutions and reasonable results, you can typically expect a less-adversarial process. If one or both attorneys are quite litigious, you may have a much longer and more complicated divorce.

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 Posted on July 23, 2019 in Child Custody

Are you and your ex-spouse fighting over sole custody of your child. While increasingly uncommon, these kinds of battles do happen — especially when one or both parents allege that the other parent is unfit.

At some point, you can usually expect to be faced with a custody evaluation. Here are some tips to help you get through the whole process:

1. Remember that the evaluator is a neutral party

No matter who requested the evaluation, don’t assume that the evaluator will take your side. He or she is only interested in what’s best for the children — so don’t mistake politeness for friendship and don’t overshare your feelings.

2. Stick to the important things

This means under no circumstances should you discuss your relationship with your ex and his or her failings as a romantic partner or spouse. You can discuss, if the evaluator asks, why you think your ex should not have shared physical custody — but focus on his or her shortcomings as a parent.

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 Posted on July 20, 2019 in Firm News

All marriages face stress, but not all marriages end in divorce. Whether you get a divorce depends on the issues you face and how you deal with them. You and your spouse are likely to deal with a variety of problems throughout your marriage and have different ideas of how to resolve them.

If you and your partner are able to work together to resolve conflict, your marriage may survive. But if the relationship is combative or unhealthy, stressors may lead to divorce. Here are some common causes of marital stress that often end in breakups.

Financial disagreements

Money problems are the number one cause of marital stress, according to a CNBC report. Financial issues impact every part of your relationship. You may find yourself and your spouse arguing about bills, spending and debt. This is especially problematic if the two of you have opposing viewpoints on the money. For example, if you work a blue-collar job while your partner is a big spender, there is likely to be some friction.

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 Posted on July 15, 2019 in Divorce

One of the hallmarks of a narcissistic spouse is that they start out as a loving partner. They may have even put you on a pedestal for a time.

Then, suddenly, you can do no right. You find yourself walking on eggshells. You feel guilty all the time because everything you do seems to upset them. Further, your attempts to communicate fall apart because your spouse seems to think that the problem is all yours — and that you are not understanding and sympathetic enough.

Just when you’ve had enough and you know that you can’t take any more, your spouse flips the script. They’re sorry, and they’re back to acting like the loving spouse you remember. You’re drawn right back in.

The problem is that it never lasts. It becomes a vicious cycle that takes you to the brink of divorce and then pulls you back with the promise that things will change. Since physical abuse is seldom involved, you convince yourself that things aren’t really that bad.

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 Posted on July 09, 2019 in Family Law

If you’re a parent who is heading toward a divorce, child support may be your biggest worry — whether you expect to pay it or receive it.

Here’s the most important piece of advice you need to hear about child support before you start making any plans: Your situation is unique. You cannot base your expectations on anyone else’s divorce and child support obligation. The smart thing to do is to talk to a family law attorney about your situation before you develop any expectations for the future.

That being said, there are at least four things every divorcing parent should know about child support:

1. Child support doesn’t affect your taxes

Under the current laws, your child support payments do not reduce your tax liability if you are a payer. They also do not increase your tax liability if you receive support.

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 Posted on July 03, 2019 in Child Custody

Shared custody is rapidly becoming favored by judges in family courts everywhere — but parents are often leery about making it work. After all, it’s hard to envision working with your ex-spouse on a regular basis (even if it is for the benefit of the children) when you can’t stand to be under the same roof together.

You can make it work.

Here are some of the top tips that experts recommend to couples who are learning to navigate the parenting waters after their divorce:

Separate your marital issues from your parenting issues

Remember, someone who makes a bad husband or wife can still be an awesome mother or father. Agree that when you’re talking about the kids, you will only talk about the kids and your parenting concerns — never about your marriage or divorce. If you must discuss marital issues or the divorce process with your child’s other parent, set up an independent meeting (without the kids around) to do so.

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 Posted on June 26, 2019 in Family Law

A total of 16 “deadbeat” parents — including 14 fathers and two mothers — have been publicly identified by the Texas Attorney General’s Office for failing to provide financially for their children. Combined, they owe an incredible $1.2 million in unpaid support for their children. Six of those parents owe more than $100,000 each.

The state released the parents’ names and photos in a media statement just in time for Father’s Day — an intentional effort to draw attention to the serious way that the state regards the failure to live up to a child support obligation.

If you’re owed child support, here are some of the most important facts you need to know:

1. A lack of income does not excuse a parent’s child support obligation. If a parent is unable to pay the support he or she owes, it is up to that parent to approach the court to ask for a modification order.

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 Posted on June 21, 2019 in Divorce

When you got married, you dreamed of building a life together with your spouse. Since divorce wasn’t even something you considered, you adopted the “share and share alike” mentality that’s common for newly married couples.

Now, however, your marriage has crumbled, and you have been spending some sleepless nights anxiously worrying about what happens to certain things — like student loans — after you’re divorced.

Well, here’s what you should know about student loan debt and divorce in Texas:

Each spouse keeps the loans they had prior to marriage

If you and your spouse met at college and got married after graduation, each of you will likely walk away with your own student loans to handle. Debt acquired before a marriage is considered separate debt — not marital debt.

Any loans acquired after your marriage will have to be divided

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 Posted on June 19, 2019 in Firm News

One big source of conflict between divorced parents in Texas involves child support and visitation. Once the courts establish which party is to pay child support and receive visitation rights and which is to retain custody, it is up to both guardians to abide by the court order. Some co-parents believe they have leeway when it comes to child support and visitation. What they fail to realize is the rulings made by the courts are not suggestions. They are legally binding commitments.

One parent cannot personally penalize the other parent for not upholding her or his end of the arrangement by withholding access to the kids. There are legal penalties for not adhering to child custody, support and visitation orders.

Purpose of child support and visitation orders

The courts recognize that children fare best with the involvement of both parents in their lives. They structure child support, custody and visitation orders to reduce the psychological and economic effects of the divorce or separation on kids and ensure both parental units remain as involved as possible. Parents may not agree with their child support, custody or visitation orders, but they are legally bound to honor them.

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